![]() ![]() When it enters marriage phase, conflict that usual appear due to lack of proximity emotional and trust. The result of this research showed that the pattern of negotiation process through ta’aruf process could be distinguished into three, namely indirect communication using medium involving peer-group, long-distance communication accompanied by medium which background backs by power relations to perform religious justification between religious figure and parent, and direct communication using medium related with interest of parent refers to economic and religious reasons. The research conducted using Knapp’s Relationship Model, Relational Dialectics theory, Gender Role theory, and theory of Marriage. Using phenomenology approach, this research refers to the interpretive paradigm. This research aimed to understand the negotiation process of gender role toward the development of relation in married couple through ta’aruf process. Difficult depiction to understand each other in the process of ta’aruf communication would led to household problems, thus the role position between husband and wife needs to be negotiated to minimalize the so-called role disparity. The occurrence of domestic violence against woman is result of failed negotiation of gender role. As their relations developed, negotiation regarding gender role established until they enter marriage phase. ![]() Ta’aruf couple have their own uniqueness since they directly go through personal phase. Islam provides an alternative during the process of finding a life partner called as ta’aruf. ![]()
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